Growing lithops under home conditions is not a difficult task if the natural cyclic growth of the plant is taken into account. A lack of understanding of the succulent's biology leads to improper care and consequently to its demise. The unusual annual growth cycle of lithops consists of four periods, each corresponding to its own rules of care and watering: growth period, dormant period, flowering period, and renewal period. The most crucial factor for maintaining a lithops is correct watering in accordance with the periods of its life cycle.
During the dormant period from June to August (in nature, the dry season with long daylight hours), the lithops does not grow, does not bloom, and sometimes pulls itself completely into the soil. At this time, being at rest, the plant does not need watering and uses moisture accumulated during the growth period. If the leaves wrinkle, cautious moistening of the top 1 cm (0.4 in) of soil is permissible. In early August, fine misting of the plant in morning hours is allowed. Under natural conditions, lithops withstand temperatures up to 50 °C (122 °F), but the optimal range during this period is 23-28 °C (73-82 °F).
During the flowering period from August to October (in nature, the rainy season with shortening daylight hours), the lithops wakes up, begins intensive growth, puts out a peduncle from the groove between the leaves, flowers, and initiates fruit ripening, which lasts several months. From mid-August, watering is resumed and increased. The plant is watered abundantly but infrequently, with mandatory complete drying of the soil. Generous watering stimulates flowering in lithops older than 3 years. With the end of flowering, watering is reduced for a smooth transition into the next period of the cycle. During this period, temperatures must be maintained not below 20 °C (68 °F).
During the renewal period from October to March (in nature, the dry season with short daylight hours), after flowering ends, the lithops transitions into a state of slow growth that many mistakenly call a second dormancy. The plant continues to develop slowly, though this process is visually unnoticeable; moreover, it may seem that the plant is dying, but in fact a new pair of leaves is beginning its vegetation, forming at the growing point of the old pair. New leaves grow inside the old ones, drawing out their nutrients. Over time, the old pair wrinkles, dries up, thins out, and splits, releasing the young leaves. During this time, the plant does not need watering or misting, but requires good lighting and keeping at a temperature of 10-15 °C (50-59 °F), not below 7 °C (45 °F). Watering is stopped completely until early March.
During the growth period from March to June (in nature, the rainy season with increasing daylight hours), the new pair of succulent leaves that replaced the old one begins active vegetation. The appearance and development of new leaves begins a new life cycle for the lithops, while the dying old leaves complete the previous one. Watering is cautiously resumed and gradually increased during March, brought to a maximum by mid-April, and scaled back toward late May. The plant expands in volume by storing moisture. From early spring, an optimal temperature is around 20 °C (68 °F).
Watering must be cautious and moderate, with complete drying of the soil between waterings. Excess moisture can lead to rot of leaves and roots. Experienced growers water from the drip tray or by immersion, draining excess water after 10 minutes. For beginners, these methods are not recommended; it is better to use a fine spray bottle to moisten the soil and air, but it is very important that moisture penetrates deep into the container, as lithops have a long taproot. Water must not enter the groove between the leaves, as this can provoke rot or sunburn. Filtered or settled, soft and warm water is used. Lithops are indifferent to air humidity; misting can be used as moistening during transition stages between periods. The plant requires fresh air and regular room ventilation without drafts.
Lithops require bright sunlight throughout the year. Being under direct sunlight for 4-5 hours during the first half of the day on a south, southeast, or east window with subsequent partial shade in the afternoon will be sufficient. As an alternative, 12-hour artificial illumination with fluorescent or LED lamps situated at a distance of 10-15 cm (3.9-5.9 in) from the plant is acceptable. West and southwest windows are less acceptable, while northern windows must not be used at all, nor should plants be placed deep inside a room. In early spring, lithops growing on a south window should be shaded for 1-2 weeks to avoid sunburn. Plants deprived of light for 4-5 days become thin, stretch out, lose color brightness, and can perish. With systematic lack of light during the summer period, the plant will not bloom. Changing the location is not recommended.
Lithops grow slowly and need repotting once every 3-5 years in spring or summer. Wide, light-colored containers 6-8 cm (2.4-3.1 in) deep are chosen for planting, with a mandatory drainage layer on the bottom about 2 cm (0.8 in). In clay pots, adding drainage is not strictly necessary. Container size is chosen slightly larger than the root system. They are planted in groups of 3-5 plants, as in solitary placement they develop much more poorly and rarely flower. The top soil layer is mulched with various decorative pebbles and gravel as a preventive measure against root collar rot.
The substrate should be stony, poor, loose, and possess neutral acidity. Due to high peat content, using ready-made cactus mixes is not recommended. A mixture of light turf soil with coarse sand or fine gravel in equal parts is used. A more complex mix can also be used, consisting of 2 parts turf soil, 1 part leaf humus, 3 parts coarse river sand, and 2 parts crushed brick. The prepared substrate must be disinfected before planting.
Lithops are capable of obtaining all necessary nutrients from water and soil; consequently, fertilizing is not mandatory. But if the plant has not been repotted for more than 2-3 years, special fertilizers for cacti and succulents at half dose can be used during watering. Fertilizer can be applied twice a year: in early May and in late August.
With proper care, lithops rarely fall ill and are rarely subject to pest attacks. During the winter period, plants can be damaged by fungus gnats, spider mites, and mealybugs. Various folk remedies exist for controlling these pests, but it is more effective to use commercial insecticidal preparations according to instructions. Lithops fall ill and perish most often from rotting of stems and roots due to excess moisture resulting from improper watering and poor drainage. In case of disease, watering must be sharply curtailed and the plant treated with fungicides.