Growing lithops under home conditions is an uncomplicated task if the natural growth cycle of the plant is taken into account. Lack of knowledge about the succulent's biology leads to improper care and, as a consequence, its demise. The unusual annual growth cycle of lithops consists of four periods, each corresponding to its own rules of care and watering: growth period, dormant period, flowering period, and renewal period. The most critical factor for maintaining lithops is correct watering in accordance with the periods of its life cycle.
During the dormant period from June to August (in nature the dry season with long daylight hours), lithops does not grow, does not bloom, and sometimes completely submerges into the soil. At this time the plant, being in a dormant period, does not need watering and uses the moisture accumulated during the growth period. In case of leaf wrinkling, careful moistening of the top 1 cm (0.4 in) of the soil layer is permitted. In early August, fine-mist spraying of the plant during morning hours is permitted. In natural conditions, lithops withstands temperatures up to 50 °C (122 °F), but the optimal range during this period is 23-28 °C (73-82 °F).
During the flowering period from August to October (in nature the rainy season with decreasing daylight hours), lithops wakes up, begins intensive growth, produces a peduncle from the groove between the leaves, blooms, and begins ripening fruit, which lasts several months. From mid-August, watering is resumed and increased. The plant is watered abundantly but rarely, with mandatory complete drying of the soil. Abundant moistening stimulates flowering in lithops older than 3 years. With the end of flowering, watering is reduced for a smooth transition of the plant into the next period of the cycle. During this period, it is necessary to maintain a temperature not lower than 20 °C (68 °F).
During the renewal period from October to March (in nature the dry season with short daylight hours), after flowering ends, lithops enters a state of slow growth, which many mistakenly call a second dormant period. The plant continues to develop slowly; however, this process is visually imperceptible; moreover, it may seem that the plant is dying, but this is a new pair of leaves beginning its vegetation, forming at the growth point of the old pair. New leaves grow inside the old ones, sucking out their nutrients. Over time, the old pair wrinkles, dries up, thins out, and ruptures, releasing the young leaves. At this time the plant does not need watering or moistening, but requires good lighting and keeping at a temperature of 10-15 °C (50-59 °F), not lower than 7 °C (45 °F). Watering is completely stopped until early March.
During the growth period from March to June (in nature the rainy season with increasing daylight hours), the new pair of succulent leaves that has taken the place of the old one begins the process of active vegetation. The appearance and development of new leaves begins a new life cycle for the lithops, while dying old leaves complete the previous one. Watering is carefully resumed and gradually increased during March, brought to a maximum by mid-April, and reduced toward the end of May. The plant increases in volume through moisture accumulation. From early spring, the optimal temperature is around 20 °C (68 °F).
Watering must be careful and moderate, with soil drying between waterings. Excess moisture can lead to rotting of leaves and roots. Experienced growers water from the tray or by immersion, draining excess water after 10 minutes. For beginners these methods are not recommended; it is better to use a fine spray bottle to moisten the soil and air, but it is very important that moisture reaches deep into the container, as lithops has a long root. Water must not enter the groove between the leaves, as this can provoke their rotting or sunburn. Filtered or settled, soft and warm water is used. Lithops is indifferent to air humidity; misting can be used as moistening during transition stages between periods. The plant requires fresh air and regular ventilation of the room without drafts.
Lithops require bright sunlight throughout the year. Being under direct sunlight for 4-5 hours in the morning on a south, southeast, or east window followed by partial shade in the afternoon will be sufficient. As an alternative, 12-hour artificial lighting with fluorescent or LED lamps located at a distance of 10-15 cm (3.9-5.9 in) from the plant is permitted. Western and southwestern windows are less acceptable; northern ones must not be used at all, just as placing plants deep inside a room. In early spring, lithops growing on a south window should be shaded for 1-2 weeks to avoid burns. Plants deprived of lighting for 4-5 days become thin, stretch out, lose brightness of coloration, and can die. With systematic lack of light in the summer period, the plant will not bloom. Changing location is not recommended.
Lithops grow slowly and need repotting once every 3-5 years in spring or summer. For planting, wide light-colored containers 6-8 cm (2.4-3.1 in) deep are chosen with a mandatory drainage layer at the bottom of about 2 cm (0.8 in). In clay pots, adding drainage is not mandatory. The container size is chosen slightly larger than the root system size. They are planted in groups of 3-5 plants, as when placed singly they develop much worse and rarely bloom. The top layer of soil is sprinkled with various decorative pebbles and gravel as prevention of root collar rot.
The substrate must be stony, poor, loose, and possess neutral acidity. Due to high peat content, using ready-made cactus soils is not recommended. A mixture of light turf soil with coarse sand or fine gravel in equal parts is used. A more complex mixture can also be used, consisting of 2 parts turf soil, 1 part leaf humus, 3 parts coarse river sand, and 2 parts brick chips. The prepared substrate is necessarily disinfected before planting.
Lithops are able to obtain all necessary nutrients from water and soil; consequently, fertilizing is not mandatory. But if the plant has not been repotted for more than 2-3 years, special fertilizers for cacti and succulents in half dose can be used during watering. Feeding can be done twice a year: in early May and late August.
With proper care, lithops rarely get sick and are seldom subjected to pest attacks. During the winter period, plants can be damaged by fungus gnats, spider mites, and mealybugs. There are various folk remedies for combating these pests, but it is more effective to use ready-made insecticidal preparations according to the instructions. Lithops fall sick and die most often from rotting of stems and roots due to an excess of moisture resulting from improper watering and poor drainage. In case of disease, watering must be sharply curtailed and the plant treated with fungicides against fungi.